How to maintain the interest of a woman.

Women are very difficult beings to understand. One day they can show a lot of interest in you, talk to you and ask you to go out, the next day just disappear or treat you like a stray dog.
Everything does not end in getting that first initial interest, because as you can see attracting your attention from the beginning is not a guarantee to go out and conquer that girl.

So below we will see some strategies that you can use to not only obtain but maintain a woman's interest in you.

Step 1 Don't show too much.

A very common mistake that almost all men make when a girl begins to show interest to us is to start telling her how much we like and all the beauty that is in her.
While being romantic in other contexts can help, but it is definitely not ideal when you are starting to meet a girl, although she is showing you that she also likes you.
In many cases, this “excessive interest” that she shows in you may be a test to see how you react and if you start behaving towards her in a submissive way.
So from the start don't give her the sky and the stars, but stay calm and keep talking to her, showing interest, but in a measured way and dedicating yourself more to knowing her than to flattering her.

Step 2 You don't have to show much interest to move forward.

Another reason that men tend to show a lot of interest in a girl we are starting to talk to is because we believe that doing so is the only way to move on to the next phase.
The truth is that if you have to show some desire to meet him and go out with him, of course, but not excessively to the point of getting to scare him away.
Look at the signals that she sends you, and based on that she acts to go to the next phase or stay right where you are, but don't get stuck telling her how beautiful she is because she will end up bored and will look elsewhere.

Step 3 Be predictable.

Another reason a girl may suddenly lose interest in you is that you have become boring or predictable.
One of the aspects that most interest a girl is that novelty or that spark that you produce in her.
However, if you start talking to her every day at the same time, tell her how beautiful she always looks, or congratulate her for everything she tells you, there will come a point when she will see you as someone monotonous and will certainly lose interest.
In any case, don't go to the other extreme of not answering her when she talks to you for being "unpredictable". The trick is to keep that surprise going to keep her interested.

Step 4 Have a life.

The best way to keep a girl interested in you is to make her realize that you are a person with an interesting life. It's that simple.
This is linked to the previous points, because if all the time you are behind her like a lapdog, she will suspect that you just don't have such a good time and that your life is not so fun, and that's why you need it.
Otherwise, if you are a person with your own activities and goals, that regardless of what she does or says you will continue to have a good time (although she is invited, of course) then she will maintain her interest in you, since she will not see you as a unlimited resource, but as an opportunity that you can lose if you let it pass.

Step 5 Do different activities.

One of the best ways to keep a woman interested in you is to do activities with her that you don't usually do.
For example, if you met her on a night of drinks, don't just invite her to activities related to parties and alcohol, but surprise her by taking her to a quiet place, like a lake on the outskirts of the city or to a play.
These kinds of "surprises" will keep the flame of attraction between the two alive, instead of acting as she supposes you will, making everything more predictable and boring.

We hope that these tips help you maintain interest in that girl who attracts you, and if you want to know more tricks to attract the woman of your dreams, do not miss our content.

Signature: A Seducer