They have dreams and implement them
Hi golos Happy year I wish from my heart to all happy year full of love and good People often do not think about what drives their dreams and desires, because all of this ultimately involves achieving certain goals. However, often the surrounding reality - television, the Internet, the family, colleagues, friends and even enemies - have a free will or involuntarily influence the formation of desires. It is important to understand in time which of the many aspirations, thoughts about which are swarming in your head, is true and do not confuse it with someone else's dream, do not want
Baby and adult dreams
Yes, of course, they differ in scale, cost in money terms and in many other parameters, but this is not the issue now. And the fact that children do not limit their dreams to any conditions, most of them believe in the feasibility of the most fantastic desire, until the parents return them to the perishable land, gradually beginning to accustom to the fact that in this world much is not how it would be desirable . Growing up, people under the influence of circumstances tend to cut their desires, for example, because they do not correspond to age, status, income, etc. The results of psychological studies on this topic show that by the age of 40 people often feel dissatisfaction with how their life is shaping up, but they are no longer hoping for global changes, and even in their thoughts they are not allowed. They find excuses, not understanding that their desires are aimed at maintaining harmony with their inner world. And meanwhile, the primary dream will always find its way and declare itself in an unexpected way, in order to be embodied in reality.
Fear of uncertainty
Modern realities offer a lot of options for replacing cherished desires with smaller and more mundane ones. Often this is due to:
• Deferred desire, when people become tired of waiting for its fulfillment (especially if in practice it is not promoted in any way);
• with fear of disappointment (suddenly it will not come true or come true and it turns out that it was not at all about that).
As a result of one or more mistakes people stop dreaming and prefer to go with the flow, not remembering what they thought in childhood, as they were confident in their abilities. In such a situation, you can try to understand what exactly causes fear, what hinders the realization of a dream, and openly look into the eyes of these obstacles, reconcile with their existence. Because suppressing one's desires is harmful to the psyche.
The deep essence of desire
Satisfaction with the fulfillment of a desire is achieved only if it is true. But how to understand it? How to make decisions regardless of attempts to impose social models from outside? Psychologists recommend focusing on the tips that the brain gives, for example, in a dream. Still Sigmund Freud noted that deciphering dreams is the key to human nature.
As a rule, people's dreams are closely related to their reality, and their implementation does not always entail radical changes in life, which many fear. This is an extreme option, when the place of work and residence changes, the family, the country - most often people decide to start everything from scratch to destroy everything that they think was not possible before and prevented living. But we must understand that this is, first of all, a flight from reality, and only then the realization of desire.
Now the theory of positive thinking is very popular, according to which, what you think about, then in life and attracted. If you follow this statement, you can determine what is really important and try to direct your thoughts exactly in this direction, without looking back and comparing yourself with others, although this is not easy. A key condition is the so-called plus charge of desire, not only for its author, but also for the people around him (that is, his implementation does not harm anyone).
Despite the simplicity of such a psychological device, it is difficult to start thinking immediately positively. This skill must be trained every day, cutting off thoughts aimed at self-criticism and doubt in the successful outcome of the case. Support this mood will help the prospect of achieving the goal and the fulfillment of the desire.
It is important to find companions in the embodiment of dreams and prepare for how to behave when it comes true. And yet, we must learn to expect a good result, not chasing the result, not seeking to possess and control. Then, they say, the desire comes true sooner.
So, the whole life of man is aimed at finding the meaning of existence and desire, the realization of which will make him happy. In childhood this aspiration is felt not so much, because children dream often and a lot. In adulthood, it is important to recognize your dream in a timely manner, not to mix it up with other people's desires, and understand what it takes to implement it.
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